Butterflies, Flowers and Rainbows

Sr. Mary walked in the door and smelled the bacon.  She knew the kids would be excited because it was a bacon and eggs breakfast and that always made them happy.

K. finished her breakfast then waited patiently as the others finished theirs.  When Sr. Mary walked in the dining room, K. looked at her anxiously and asked if it was time to leave for school.  Sr. Mary told her it was and K. got up from the table to get ready.

K. knew the routine.  First put on the shoes, grab her bookbag then wait for Sr. Mary to strap in her booster seat.  Once buckled in, she and Sr. Mary went over the “business” of the morning.  Sr. Mary told her what vehicle to look for after school that would be picking her up to go home.  For just a moment, K. hesitated, then asked, “Am I going home after school?” 

Sr. Mary noted the concern in her voice and told her no, that she was coming back to Blessing House.  K. replied, “Oh, good.”

After a few moments, K. spoke.  “I had a dream last night.”

Sr. Mary answered her, “Oh, really, K.?  What was your dream.”

K. told her story.

“I was outside playing, then it started to rain so I was going to have to go inside.  But when I was getting ready to go in, all at once butterflies started to fly everywhere.  Then flowers started to pop out of the ground.  Then I looked up and there was a rainbow in the sky.”

“Wow,”  Sr. Mary said.  “That must have been so pretty.”

K. went on.  “And when I looked at the other side of the rainbow, there was Blessing House.  Then I woke up.”

Who knows what this child would normally dream at night.

But for one night butterflies, flowers and rainbows turned her fantasy world into a reality for her.  She didn’t want the night’s reality to end.

As K. got out of the van, she turned to Sr. Mary and waved.

“See you later!”

Sr. Mary answered, “Yes you will.  Have a great day!”

The dreams of a child.

I Prayed for Mom . . . . .

I was driving a child to school this morning and he sat in the back seat telling me about his morning and what he had for breakfast and who he was going to see in school and what his sister did and on and on and on. Then after a very short pause to catch his breath he said, " . . . . and I prayed for my mom last night."  
I asked him, "Did you pray that Jesus would make your mommy better?" 
He just said, "Yeah." 
Then he asked me to put some music on the radio and he was quiet the rest of the way.

Goodbye, friend.

We lost a good friend yesterday.

 Tracey Hawkins has been part of Blessing House since the beginning. Tracey was a Supervisor at Lorain County Children Services when we asked her to help us formulate our approach to plead our case in Columbus. Fortunately for us she was able to join us in Columbus and share from her expertise how Blessing House would complement the work of LCCS. For the past several years she has served as our social worker. She has worked with our families, trained our staff and joined us in many events. This past summer she rode on our float in the International Parade.

 Tracey was a very simple person. She was always helping someone somewhere with whatever was needed. Her heart for others was very large and her concern for children was immense. Her laughter and her quick wit made every encounter something to enjoy.

 As her health problems developed, she would give you a matter of fact update with no complaining. She endured being poked and prodded and never lost her ability to laugh. She was always ready for a visit or a chat and her advice was always welcome. She had a unique way of looking at circumstances that seemed to put everything into perspective.

 Over the past couple of years we had a lot of conversations about faith. We never spoke about religion but rather about God. Her trust in her God and her surrender to accepting whatever God had placed in her life was humbling. She truly knew that God was always caring for her no matter what happened.

 Yesterday Tracey entered into the fullness of God’s loving presence. I would guess she had watched her beloved Steelers win on Sunday and then eased back in her recliner for a quick nap. I imagine she was surprised to awaken on the other side of death with no more pain or discomfort.

 Tracey will truly be missed.

Games People Play

Where do they think of this stuff?

When our children are at the house, they don’t watch television and only watch movies at rest time.  The rest of the time they are using their imaginations and engaging in play with the other children and the staff.  They come up with some pretty creative ideas.

Last week, Miss Pat picked the one watermelon that grew in our garden.  They had been watching it grow for some time and were excited that it was finally big enough to pick.  So they pulled it from the vine and brought it into the house.

One of the boys, R. was amazed at how big it had grown.  He decided it was even as big as the grownups’ heads.  So he decided to have a contest.  He asked Miss R. to get a tape measure and they would measure everybody’s heads and the one closest to the watermelon would win. 

Everyone got measured  then Sr. Mary arrived at the house.  As she walked through the playroom, she was cornered and told it was her turn.  She wasn’t sure what turn she was supposed to be taking and got a little nervous when T. walked toward her with a tape measure.  She wondered, “Hmmm, what was this child going to do?”

T. then asked Sr. Mary to sit down.  Now she was really getting nervous.

T. wrapped the tape measure around her forehead then reported the reading to Miss R. The children seemed to find great joy then in announcing to Sr. Mary that she lost.

Not sure what she was even competing for, she asked one of the boys, “OK, I lost, but what did I lose at?”

P. told her, “We’re trying to see whose head is the closest size to our watermelon?  And Miss J.’s is closer than yours.’

Sr. Mary just looked at Miss R. with that look that said, “Where did you come up with this one?”  Miss R. just shrugged her shoulders and smiled. 

Sr. Mary poured her cup of coffee and went back to her office, listening to the children’s excitement as they announced to Miss J. that she was the winner.  Miss J. replied, “Wow!  Thanks!”  Then she looked at Sr. Mary and said, “I think?”

The watermelon would taste especially sweet that night with dinner.  The children knew it had come from their own garden and a few of them had been there long enough to really watch it grow.

Sr. Mary’s thought as she sat in her office . . . . Too bad it was a seedless watermelon, otherwise she was sure the day would have ended with a seed spitting contest.  She remembered having a few of those with her brothers when she was their age.  But not to worry.  She knew when she came back the next day there would be another story to tell and another competition to enter.

She heard one of the boys say as she got up from her desk,  “Let’s see who can guess how many tomatoes Moses will eat?”

Yep, time to leave and go home.

Game over.

A Mulligan for Kids

Join us for the First Irish Open that benefits children at risk across Northeast Ohio. Blessing House is one of two Crisis Care Centers in Ohio that provides temporary residential care for children when families are facing a crisis. Blessing House has taken in children more than 2,000 times to help prevent abuse and neglect.

The First Irish Open is a four person scramble scheduled for Wednesday, September 21^st at Pleasant Hill Golf Course (13461 Aquilla Road, Chardon). Shotgun start at noon, $50 per person/$200 for a 4 person team, lunch provided,  Prizes and Raffle. Wear your GREEN!

For more information see: www.blessinghouse.org or call Sr. Mary Berigan SND at 440-240-1851.

"Blessing House is in our Driveway!"

It was school supplies delivery day and Sr. Mary and Sr. Sandra loaded up the van with all of the donated supplies we had received to deliver them to children who have stayed at Blessing House.  Families have been calling for help and school is about ready to start.

Deliveries were made to 30 children and it was exciting for Sr. Mary and Sr. Sandra each time they knocked on a door and the children realized they were getting new school supplies.  They went with their moms to the van and picked out bookbags which they filled with paper, pencils, glue sticks and notebooks. 

Then as Sr. Mary turned a corner and pulled onto a side street, a young boy standing on the sidewalk noticed the Blessing House logo on the van and started shouting, “It’s Blessing House!  It’s Blessing House!”  He ran down the sidewalk as the van drove slowly down his street continuing to shout.  Then when Sr. Mary finally pulled into his driveway, he went running in the house and yelled to his mom, “Blessing House is in our driveway!”

He was so excited to get his supplies and now he was finally ready for school.

Then his friend and neighbor joined him and wanted to know if the supplies were free.  When Sr. Mary told him they were, he asked if he could get some, too.  Sr. Mary asked him what school he went to and when he told her, she pulled out the supply list for his school and filled a bag for him, too.

It was a great opportunity to visit with some of our families and we couldn’t have asked for a warmer welcome.  (Blessing House is in our driveway!)  The children are all ready and excited about going back to school and for most of them, these supplies were all they had to start back. 

Thanks to all who donated supplies for our children.  We wish you could have seen their faces, as they filled their bags with brand new things.  Now they are ready to learn. 

Just one more example of the simple things that truly make a difference in the lives of our children.

Every Day Miracles - Cereal and Ramen Noodles

                    

“Food insecurity” is a term that is being used more often in relation to children who are living in poverty.  Food insecurity occurs when “the food intake of one or more household members is reduced and their eating patterns are disrupted at times during the year because the household lacked money and other resources for food.”

At first glance, it would just seem that food insecurity is simply another word for “hunger.”  And while this may be something that happens in “those other countries far away,” many don’t think it is something that we need to worry about in Lorain County. 

Let me tell you a little more about food insecurity, as seen through the eyes of our children and families.

Food insecurity is cereal and ramen noodles.  When I asked one of our school age children one time what her favorite meal was, she said, “Cereal and ramen noodles.”  She was the oldest in a family of 5 and had a hard time coming up with other foods she ate at home.

Food insecurity is worrying about what is going to be for snack before lunch is even finished.  Or worrying about breakfast the next morning before baths were even finished that night.  Children who have been hungry are preoccupied with when they will eat next and can’t seem to stop worrying about their next meal.

Food insecurity is wanting to have seconds, thirds or more of foods they are not used to getting.  It may be meat loaf or mashed potatoes.  Once in a while it’s even green beans or tomatoes.  They want to eat when they know the food is there because they just don’t trust it will be there tomorrow.

Food insecurity is asking to take food home with them.   Children see food that hasn’t been eaten or food that has been donated and ask if they can have it or take it home when they leave.  Some will even try to sneak it and take it with them when they leave the dinner table. 

Food insecurity and good nutrition are major issues with many of our children.  Children come from homes where they are not able to receive regular healthy meals because their moms just don’t have enough resources to buy all of the food they need for the whole family.  Or they don’t eat balanced meals because Mom can’t get transportation to the grocery store to buy the milk and vegetables her children needs.  Or Mom can’t cook because she doesn’t have a stove or a refrigerator to keep her food from spoiling.

Recently during dinner at the house, H. asked for a third helping of macaroni and cheese and couldn’t understand why Miss K. wouldn’t give it to her.  Miss K. knew that 2 helpings were enough for H. because she had been having digestive problems all week.  H. was not used to eating healthy meals at home and would try to make up for her lack of food all at once by eating too much.  She had been having problems with her digestive system all week and it would take time to get her system used to eating regular healthy meals once again. 

We recently were taking J.,  a young boy home after a visit to Blessing House and he did not want to go home.  He cried all of the way and just kept repeating, “I don’t want to go home.”  When we arrived at his home, we began to gather some of the donations that we brought with us to give to the family.  We tried to get J. excited about his return home by asking him to carry the toys he had received. 

J. stopped crying for a moment, but then looked past the toys in the back of the van and pointed at a bag on the floor.  J. knew that the bag had snacks and drinks leftover from an outing.  He wanted to know if he could have them.

Sr. Mary gathered his things and handed him the bag with the “Lil Hugs” drinks.  J. stopped crying and started walking toward his home with his bag.  The toys didn’t seem to matter nearly as much as his bag.

Food insecurity is another term for hunger, and there are children in Lorain County who are hungry or who don’t eat properly because they don’t have access to the right foods.  So much of their development is affected by what they eat and many agencies in Lorain County have devoted their resources to helping these families learn about nutrition and how to get food.

Children don’t stand a chance to develop, to learn, to be able to deal with the difficulties they encounter if their bodies are focused only on the food it needs to survive.

There are children who are hungry.

Right here in Lorain County.

Please continue to help our kids by supporting Lorain County Foodbank and the local food pantries and hot meals programs throughout the year.

 Your donations do make a difference.

Our children need our help.

http://secondharvestfoodbank.org/

  

God is Good!

I was at the house tonight and all was quiet, even with 8 children at the house. As I walked in the playroom, I was amazed to see all 8, in pajamas and laying down on their blankets on the floor quietly watching a movie. 5 different families. But for a few days, they would be together as one, safe and secure. God is good.

100 Women Who Care About Lorain County

In August, 2010, 4 women from Lorain County got together and decided they would like to form a group of women benefactors who would pool their resources to make donations to non profit organizations in Lorain County that would truly make an impact.  Libby Thuning, Sue Bowers, Marcia Miller, and Nancy Sullivan organized the first meeting and set up the framework for 100 Women Who Care About Lorain County.

Participants meet once a quarter and select an organization that has been presented by one of the members.  Everyone gets a chance to provide input and the group collectively decides who is going to receive the donation.

Blessing House recently was chosen to receive a donation from 100 Women Who Care About Lorain County.  We received $8,000 from this group of women who are not only generous but civic minded in their  support of their community.  

This donation will go toward the care of children at Blessing House.  It costs $150 a day to care for our children and this donation will provide a safe place to stay for 8 of our children.  That is 8 times a child will come to our door needing a safe place to stay because they are homeless, their mom is sick, or they are living in a stressful or dangerous situation that puts them at risk.

A special thanks to Maria Grega for presenting us to the 100 Women Who Care.  We appreciate your present and past support as you have helped us in many ways.  You have helped us with our medical screenings, you have brought special donations (the children really loved the PJs!) and you and your friends put on a great picnic for our staff and children this summer.

Everyone working together can do so much to help those who need it.  Working together we do make an impact.

Thanks to 100 Women Who Care About Lorain County. 

Thanks for making a difference in the lives of our children.

Sr. Mary Berigan

100 Women Who Care About Lorain County

Through the Eyes of a Child

 Sr. Mary was working around the house- Loading donations, picking up things outside blown around by a storm, carrying things to the basement. An observant child asked her, "Hey, who are you?" Sr. Mary introduced herself, "I am Sr. Mary." Then the child asked, "Are you the janitor?" At a loss for words, Sr. Mary could only reply, "Today, I guess so." A dose of humility to start the day.

Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

  When most of us finally reach that age when the AARP card arrives in the mail, we are usually ready to slow down and catch up on all of those books that we always wanted to read, but never had the time to, even if those books now need to be in large print.   We wear red and purple together, watch movies that remind us of the old days, and get our grandchildren all riled up before we send them home to their parents.

   Well, most of us do.

 It seems that more and more, though, we are meeting with grandparents at Blessing House who have given up the freedoms of retirement for the responsibilities of raising their grandchildren.  Moms and dads, for a variety of reasons, are not able to take care of their children, and rather than letting their grandchildren go into foster care, grandparents are stepping up and saying, “Come, live with me.”

   We recently have worked with several grandparents who are raising their grandchildren.  It has not been easy for any of them.

   Grandpa had not had any children living with him for a long time.  He was retired and lived on his social security with little other income.  He had worked hard and had a simple home in a quiet town.  He had his friends and his hobbies and was ready to slow down.  That was until he got a phone call from his daughter.   He knew she had been ill for some time, but he was still shocked when she called and told him she could no longer care for her two children.  Then she asked him, “Can they come live with you until I get back on my feet?”

   Grandpa said yes, but then began to think about what this would mean.  Getting them registered for school, getting them doctor appointments.  Cooking for them, washing their clothes, putting them to bed every night.  Having to watch cartoons instead of his movies.  Having to read Dr. Seuss instead of the newspaper.  What had he gotten himself into?

   Grandpa called us several times after P. and M. moved in with him.  It was not easy for him to adjust to this new role, and he needed some moral support.  The children had special needs and he was having a difficult time adjusting to their behavior.  Now he was questioning the wisdom of his decision.

   We listened to Grandpa and heard his frustration.  We tried to encourage him to take it one day at a time and not to think about the days, and weeks and months ahead where he would have to put two others ahead of himself.  It was hard for him, but he said he would keep trying.  He really wanted what was best for them.

   We also got a phone call from a Grandma who we have worked with in the past.  Grandma had taken in her 3 grandchildren with no notice when their mom was no longer able to care for them.  Grandma knew it would be difficult, but she loved them so much, she quickly agreed to take on the responsibility of their care.  She arranged child care and continued working her full time job, knowing the days of simple comforts were over.

   Grandma was pleased with how quickly the children settled down with her and she, too, adjusted to her new schedule.  The baby was progressing in her development and her oldest grandson didn’t seem to have as many problems with his behavior.

   But the children’s mom still struggled with the same problems that led the children to go and stay with Grandma in the first place.   Grandma often longed for the separation that would allow her to focus on just her grandchildren, but she could not disengage herself from her daughter’s life.  So she continued to look for a way to love and protect her grandchildren while still trying to help her daughter.  It was not easy.  This time Grandma asked if her grandchildren could come and stay with us for a few days while she helped her daughter with yet another problem.  Her daughter had no one else to help her.

   Grandma is determined to raise her grandchildren in a safe, loving home.  Grandpa wants what is best for his grandchildren, too, but we don’t know how long he will be able to take care of them.  He says he is willing to take it one day at a time.  He recently sent us pictures of the kids playing in the backyard.  There were smiles on their faces as they posed for pictures for Sr. Mary.  They looked like they were having a good time.   Even better, they looked like they knew they were loved.

   Maybe some day, these moms will be able to take care of their children.

   I think they really want to.

   But if they can’t, Grandma and Grandpa will continue to care for them, taking it one day at a time.

   I’m sure they would like more time to themselves, more freedom to do what they want to do.

   But for now, spare time and freedom are luxuries enjoyed sparingly because their grandchildren really need them.

 Retirement will just have to wait.

Every Day Miracles - Imagination

   The young lady who walked up to us was striking in her youthful beauty.  Her smile was bright and she was self-assured and confident as she approached us.

   She and her sister were coming to stay with us for a few days.    M. understood she would only be with us a short time, but it was obvious she was reluctant to leave her Mom behind.

   The girls arrived at the house and were happy to get something to eat and drink.  It was the end of the week, so they put their bookbags away and changed their clothes.  As they walked into the playroom, they were immediately attracted by the dolls and they wanted to play with them.

   Over the next few days, whenever we would check in on the girls, they were happily settled in their play area with their baby dolls, clothes and accessories gathered around them.   The girls dressed their dolls, fed them, and took them to the store.   After watching them for a few minutes one day, I asked  Miss B. who was supervising them, “Isn’t it a little unusual for a 10 year old to be so enamored with baby dolls?”  Miss B. replied, “M. told me she never had a baby doll before so all she wants to do is play with them.”

   A couple of nights later, M. was acting a little out of sorts at the dinner table.  Then she asked if she could use the restroom.  After she came out, one hand was covering her mouth and the other was holding a tissue.  In the tissue was a tooth that she had just “wiggled” out.  She smiled as she handed it to me.  Then she went back to finish her meal.

   I held the tissue in my hand and looked at Sr. Mary as I asked, “Does the tooth fairy come for 10 year olds?” 

   Without hesitation, Sr. Mary replied, “At Blessing House she does.”

   I put M.’s tooth in a bag and then gave it to her to put under her pillow that night.  I was waiting for her to tell me that she was too old for the tooth fairy and she didn’t believe in it.  But she didn’t.

   That night the tooth fairy did find her way to Blessing House.   And when M. woke up, she looked under her pillow.

   “Sr. Sandy, I can’t find my tooth.”

    Sr. Sandy and I just looked at each other and wondered what had happened.   Then Sr. Sandy helped M. look around the bed until they found the treasure lodged behind the mattress.

   M. broke out her winning smile, even though she was still barely awake, and looked at the two dollars that she held in her hand.  She couldn’t wait to tell her Mom.

   M. blossomed during her short stay with us.  She finally left the baby dolls behind and began to try other things.  She played jump rope outside and was excited when she taught a six year old how to jump in while she twirled for him.  She even enjoyed the one on one time she had with a staff member when she was getting help with her homework after school.  She admitted she needed help with her math and could only do the problems if she added the numbers on her fingers.  But she proudly showed the smile face she got on her homework page every afternoon when she came home from school.

   Whenever M.’s Mom called to talk to her, M. always asked, “How are you feeling, Mom?”  Then, “Where are you?”  Then finally, “When are we coming home?”

   The girls, as confident as they were, had still been afraid for their mom.  They didn’t understand her illness, but they did know that going to a hospital meant that you were really sick.  They knew their Mom had been sick for some time, and M.’s sister even admitted she was afraid her Mom was going to die.

   The path from childhood to adulthood is so different for everyone.  In some ways we grow up slowly, but in others, we are forced to grow up very quickly.  When this happens, we can miss out on so much.

   I’m glad M. was able to take a step back in time and experience some of the childhood joys she may have missed.  Baby dolls, the tooth fairy, playing house.  M.  has probably experienced things no 10 year old should have experienced in her short life, but it is obvious she has not lost her youth or her imagination.

   I don’t know if M. really believes in the tooth fairy or not.

   But it doesn’t matter.

   For one night, for a couple of weeks, it was fun to play pretend.

  

  

Every Day Miracles - Moses

  

  
   He doesn’t even know that he can’t do everything the others do.

   He thinks he can do anything.

   Moses runs around in the backyard, chasing the ball and playing with the kids.  Out of the corner of his eye, he sees a squirrel running along the back fence and he is there in an instant, following it until it is out of sight.  Then, when no one seems to be paying any attention to him anymore, he runs up the ramp and sticks his head in Sr. Mary’s door, knowing he can always get attention there.

   Moses doesn’t realize that only having three legs instead of four should keep him from doing many of the things that he does.  Moses was rescued by GRIN (Golden Retrievers in Need) after he was either lost or abandoned by his owner and then found as a stray.  His leg had been injured, treated, and then reinjured.  After the most recent injury, he did not receive the proper care and his leg was so hurt, it couldn’t be healed.  So it was removed.  But only having three legs hasn’t slowed him down a bit.

   Moses has made a big impact on our kids.  When they first meet him, they just kind of stare at him and remark, “He only has three legs!”  Then they watch as he hops up to them on his front leg, waiting for them to pet him.  It doesn’t take long for them to get comfortable with him and soon they are rolling on the floor with him, throwing him the ball, and using him for a pillow as they watch a movie. 

   One little boy arrived at the house for a visit and the first thing he asked was, “Where’s the dog with the broken leg.”  He had been at the house recently for a visit and had become very attached to Moses.  Sr. Mary then explained that Moses’ leg wasn’t broken, that it just wasn’t there.  Some of the kids thought that if it was “broken,” it could be fixed, restored to the way it used to be.  But then they somehow came to understand that “fixing it” really wasn’t important to Moses.  He was fine just the way he was.

    One day out in the back yard, some of the children were playing and one of the girls was having a hard time mastering a new game.  Just then Moses ran by and the girl paused a minute then replied under her breath, “If Moses can do it, then so can I.”

   Resilience is a trait our children need, but many of them don’t have the skills to develop it.  If they have been living in an environment where they have witnessed repeated failure and lack of motivation, they don’t know how, nor do they even want to try to overcome the barriers that they encounter.  They easily give up because they don’t know how to struggle.

   It would be nice if we could take away all of the difficulties our children must face, but we can’t.  And we shouldn’t.  In our imperfect world, we have to learn how to deal with the bad times as well as the good times and we can only do this through struggle.   So we may not always be able to fix everything for our children, but we can be with them and help them learn to experience the sweetness of success, as they figure out how to make the bad better.

   I think our kids see themselves in Moses. They see that he was hurt, but he has mended.  They see that he may not be whole in body, but that he is whole in spirit. 

   They know that he doesn’t look like all of the other dogs, but it doesn’t matter to them. 
   They love him as he is.
   And someday when they grow up, they want to be just like him.

Every Day Miracles - The "Go Home Bag"

   When children leave to go home after their first visit at Blessing House, they are given a “Go Home” Bag.  This bag is a home-made duffel bag made by one of several groups who provide them for our children. 

   Our staff takes great delight in filling them with stuffed animals, books, a homemade blanket and a homemade pillow.  We also send home toys and clothes and other donations that are available.

   We know how much these simple things can mean to a child.  Just recently,  J. was at the house and he ended up needing a bath one afternoon.  When he was getting dressed after his bath, he wanted to know if he could put his pajamas on.  It was the middle of the afternoon.  We knew something was up.

    But J. said he didn’t own any pajamas and he only got to wear them when he was at Blessing House.  He always loved the pajamas he got to wear when he stayed with us.  So he wanted to put them on as soon as he could.  We told them his pajamas would be waiting for him to put on later, and he reluctantly agreed to put his clothes back on.

   J. and his brother, T., noticed a lot of the donations that had been brought in while they were at the house.  They knew that we gave things to families and they weren’t shy about asking if they could take their clothes and some of the toys they were playing with home.  They were from a large family and didn’t get many new things.

  It was time to go and J. and T. put on their coats.  Then , one of the staff came up to them and handed them their “Go Home” Bag. 

   J. and T. just looked at us as if to say, “And what is this?”

   We explained that we just wanted to send a few things home with them and that when they got home, they could look and see what was in their bag.

   J. and T. were quickly out the door and anxious to get home.  Their bags sat on the seat next to them and it was all they could do to keep from opening them on the way home.

    For our children who don’t have much, a brand new blanket and pillow, along with some nice clothing, toys and other surprises can mean so much.  Many of our children are used to hand me downs that are sometimes worn out or don’t fit properly.  So getting to take these fresh new gifts home was a real treat for them. 

    When children leave with their Go Home Bag, they are taking a part of Blessing House with them.  They are taking gifts that have been donated by our supporters, some even made with their own hands.  Getting something new is a real treat for them.

      I wondered if J. asked his Mom if he could take a bath that afternoon.  I’m sure she would have wondered why he wanted to do this, just like we did. 

      She would have only needed to look in J.’s Go Home Bag, where she would have found a new pair of pajamas. 

       Nightime couldn’t come fast enough. 

 

"Blessing House Bash" a night of tennis, fitness, friendship and support

We are excited to announce a new event that will help support the children of Blessing House!  Blessing House is staging the first “Blessing House Bash,” a night of tennis, fitness and friendship on Friday, July 22^nd, at Five Seasons Sports Club in Westlake, Ohio.

The evening begins at 7:00 when guests will be able to play tennis with others of their own skill level on the beautiful courts of Five Seasons Club.  There will be prizes and surprises throughout the night. Those who don’t want to play can just sit and relax, watching their friends play.

After everyone has had a good workout, we will be able to enjoy refreshments around the pool.  Light hors d'oeuvres will be available along with a cash bar and our other feature of the evening, a beer tasting, sponsored by Great Lakes Brewery. 

This is a great opportunity to get some exercise, try some new beer flavors and just relax with friends, all while helping the children and families of Blessing House.  Our children and families really need our help right now and this is a wonderful opportunity to help make a difference in the lives of families in crisis.

Blessing House is a children’s residential crisis care center that cares for children whose families are experiencing an emergency and needs a safe place for them to stay.  Last year, Blessing House provided care for 176 children whose families were experiencing health, housing, legal, and other family stabilization issues. 

Mary Herrick, board member and co-chair of the Blessing House Bash stated, “We are so excited to be able to present this unique opportunity for the community to support the children at Blessing House.  This is a chance for everyone to come and get some exercise, meet some new friends and have some fun.  There will be something for everyone, even those who have never played tennis before.  The Blessing House Bash will be a great summer night out!”

For more information about the Blessing House Bash, please contact Mary Herrick at 216-316-9501.  Registration forms are available at www.blessinghouse.org.  Tickets are available at $50 per person.